Hello Ecoemma,
I don't have experience per se with composting toilets, though I do compost all my food scraps and plan on getting a composting toilet for my yurt once it gets towards livable :P In the mean time, here's some things I've learned:
There are roughly three (3) types of common composting systems--the all out DIY Jenkins system (free to $200 depending on materials on hand), RV/boat-type composters ($1000), and big home composters ($2-20K). There are also incincerators, vacuum flush systems, and cesspool & septic setups.
The jenkins system is nice and simple, requiring the least layout of cash/materials (toilet seat, buckets, wood for toilet area & composting bin). Most work intensive though--if I recall from his online book they empty their buckets something like weekly. Requires good composting technique (mixing N-C, monitoring temp) and full aging (1-2 years) before garden use for safety. Since it's DIY, not a certified system. Also see variants such as Lodge-tech.net's composting toilet.
RV/Boat-type composters cost a good penny but not as much as the big systems. They're a lot smaller (close to the footprint of a regular toilet) and will often have urine diverting. Requires turning regularly via crank on side of toilet. Urine is emptied frequently (weekly or so; dilute and water plants or pour on ground?); composted matter emptied a few times a year, depending on holding capacity size/use (could maybe be used on ornamentals/trees; requires aging for safe use in gardens). Certified, kind of--not sure if for homes/buildings. Nature's Head, Air Head, and EzLoo composting toilets are the ones I know of.
Big composters look like big thrones, cost a lot, can be emptied less often (hopefully). Sometimes require started cultures & whatnot. SunMar and a bunch of others fall into this category. Certified and usually acceptable for home use.
So it kind of boils down to how much do you want to spend, how much work do you want to do, and what is the building department requiring?
Most all these systems require at least regular use of peat moss/coconut coir/sawdust/etc. Also keep in mind some system for dealing with your gray water should be developed--a mini-septic system here could work well, or just buckets emptied regularly, or even just piping it to a 'drainfield' of wood chips cultured with edible fungi
Hope that helps and good luck!